When I was really young, I imagined myself being with a woman, because that was the norm. This was unheard of at the time, but by gosh we had fun. Loading comments… Trouble loading? One of the things I love about sex with women is that it can be so endless and full of possibilities. The sex we see in the media is one-dimensional. One is a former lover, one is current and one will be a lover in the future.
A lot of men have a narrative in their head about how sex should play out, which ends up prohibiting genuine experimentation.
How to have sex with the same person for the rest of your life
In my 20s and 30s, there was a clash between my need to experiment and the urge to be in a relationship. Sharing good experiences is better than spending your money on stuff for each other. At my age, a lot of gay men are quite sleazy. But I was an early user once the internet got started. Is that too much to ask? One of the things I love about sex with women is that it can be so endless and full of possibilities.